Enthusiasm

K was sucking me last night.

It was quite late, long after midnight.
We went to bed this late, because we had friends visiting us for a BBQ.
The weather is excellent over here. Lots of sun, 25 degrees.
The region we are living in, even was the warmest in the whole of Europe.
Something that never happens!
The weather over here is notorious for rain and clouds...

Anyway, it was late and we started fooling around a bit but we both were not completely in the mood.

Of course I started losing my erection after some time, a combined effect of me not really being in the mood and sensing that k wasn't either.
She did a good job, though, deep throating as good as she could.
But something was missing.

Enthusiasm.

K stopped and rolled away on her side of the bed.

When I asked what happened, she said that her mind easily wandered off to other things.

'I did get the chance to wander off'.
That's what she said.

It triggerd me.
This one remark triggered me and I told her to turn on her back and start pinching her nipples. Pulling them hard.
I could see that she was instantly turned on.
After some time I ordered her to start fingering herself and I grabbed her hair and started fucking her mouth.

It was different. Very different.
When we both came, it was very, very good.

A good lesson learned.
I will not let her mind wander off again.

Tango sensual

Last night k and I danced a small tango of dominance and submission.
Taking one step - another one - retiring a bit - making a turn - than dancing in another direction...

When we talked about it later, she told me that now and then, she felt like missing me strongly leading the dance. And leading it completely.

I do not know if I stopped leading at certain twists and turns.
I probably did.
Of course there are reasons for this. (Aren't there always reasons...)

I did observe k very closely last night and I also quite often assessed if things were still going right.

You should know that I handcuffed k for the first time and used a brandnew flogger. Very new!
I also gave her the sweet treatment of adjustable nipple clamps. (She really loves these gems)
I did not know how she would react to the flogging.
So I was careful.

And I wonder.
Maybe I was too careful and maybe I shouldn't.
And lead the dance.

Totally.

Please

Will you put the clamps on, please?
Will you?

Talk about a major change!
Last night, k asked herself to feel a couple of clamps biting on her nipples.

Being a good sport, and a real gentleman, I obliged...

Two happy partners in crime, what could one ask more for.

;-)

Little step

It has been some time that I posted here, but I am back!


K and I took our D/s relation one step further.
A little one, but in my eyes, a very importatnt one.

Ropes and nipple clamps.

All very much improvised, but still! We did it.

Sunday morning, when we woke up, we started fooling around a bit.
Pinching, some light spanking.
I made k stand up, put her hands high against the cupboard and blindfolded her.

It was a wonderful sight, seeing her stand up, naked, blindfolded and very, very vulnerable.
I took my belt and looped it firmly around her waist.
I don't kow why, but I have always loved the sight of a leather belt, strapping in a girls waist.
It is a sort of a teeny, weeny corset, I guess. Emphasising the female hour-glass form.

Later I looseened the belt and used it on her asscheeks.
Now that really was a first! I liked it, she liked it.

At a certain point, I was holding k down on the bed and whispering in her ear that I was going to tie her up the next time.

"Why the next time"?

A good question and there was no reason to postpone it. A couple of days ago, I found a left-over rope, a quite rough one, and I went to fetch it.
I also took a couple of clothespins with me...


I have never been a boy scout, so knots are not my thing.
Not yet.
I just did my best tying k's hands behind her back and I put the clothespins on her nipples.
To be honest, I loosened them a bit, but they still did their job very well!

What impressed me was that k really enjoyed the feeling of these pins.
She was very much aroused and when I started stroking her clit, she came hard, very hard. She had one of these orgasms rising from deep inside her and lasting very long.

When I removed the blindfold, k was very emotional and she hid for a very long time in my arms.

It was a warm and deep and very new experience!

Little task (two)

Don't you love to read about women or men, getting tasks to remind them of who is actually in charge?

Maybe you like it when you experience it yourself.

Last night, k and I had a little argument.
That happens, doesn't it.
She was meeting some colleagues in the city I live in and she asked if she could stay over in my appartment. More convenient to her, no driving at night, no alcohol checks...
Of course I agreed, it was after all not the first time this happened, one week ago she stayed over for the first time.

But ones feelings can play a different tune.
When she arrived, I had a faint sentiment that she was in a way intruding in my private, cosy den.
Like a bear's liar that you'd better stay away from.
Just a teeny weeny feeling.
Nothing more.

K is a very intuative person and sensed right away that I had doubts. Even how small they were, she knew.
Damn her and this female intuition...

Anyway, we kept some distance, literally even and in the morning she left to work.
She told me she was going to have lunch with an old friend, a guy she once had a short relationship with.

She texted at noon that she wrote an extensive mail. A mail, as I saw when I read it, to tell me she loves me and that she is thrilled with the path we are walking on now. D/s and everything included does attract her very, very much.

Such mails trigger me to get naughty! So I texted back that I appreciated her mail very much. And then I wrote this.

"Put your feet next to each other, straighten your back, bend it a bit backward and lift your bosom towards him, your ex friend".

I liked the idea of her former friend to see her doing this oh so female gesture, and I could picture him imangining she was doing it for him.

"Just sit like that and after half an hour, go to the toilet and take off your bra. When you are back in your seat, be aware how your nipples get hard and how you are siting there. Know that you do that for Me"

I just got a message from her

"Task completed".

Next time she will not forget to thank Me.