Enthusiasm

K was sucking me last night.

It was quite late, long after midnight.
We went to bed this late, because we had friends visiting us for a BBQ.
The weather is excellent over here. Lots of sun, 25 degrees.
The region we are living in, even was the warmest in the whole of Europe.
Something that never happens!
The weather over here is notorious for rain and clouds...

Anyway, it was late and we started fooling around a bit but we both were not completely in the mood.

Of course I started losing my erection after some time, a combined effect of me not really being in the mood and sensing that k wasn't either.
She did a good job, though, deep throating as good as she could.
But something was missing.

Enthusiasm.

K stopped and rolled away on her side of the bed.

When I asked what happened, she said that her mind easily wandered off to other things.

'I did get the chance to wander off'.
That's what she said.

It triggerd me.
This one remark triggered me and I told her to turn on her back and start pinching her nipples. Pulling them hard.
I could see that she was instantly turned on.
After some time I ordered her to start fingering herself and I grabbed her hair and started fucking her mouth.

It was different. Very different.
When we both came, it was very, very good.

A good lesson learned.
I will not let her mind wander off again.

Tango sensual

Last night k and I danced a small tango of dominance and submission.
Taking one step - another one - retiring a bit - making a turn - than dancing in another direction...

When we talked about it later, she told me that now and then, she felt like missing me strongly leading the dance. And leading it completely.

I do not know if I stopped leading at certain twists and turns.
I probably did.
Of course there are reasons for this. (Aren't there always reasons...)

I did observe k very closely last night and I also quite often assessed if things were still going right.

You should know that I handcuffed k for the first time and used a brandnew flogger. Very new!
I also gave her the sweet treatment of adjustable nipple clamps. (She really loves these gems)
I did not know how she would react to the flogging.
So I was careful.

And I wonder.
Maybe I was too careful and maybe I shouldn't.
And lead the dance.

Totally.

Please

Will you put the clamps on, please?
Will you?

Talk about a major change!
Last night, k asked herself to feel a couple of clamps biting on her nipples.

Being a good sport, and a real gentleman, I obliged...

Two happy partners in crime, what could one ask more for.

;-)

Little step

It has been some time that I posted here, but I am back!


K and I took our D/s relation one step further.
A little one, but in my eyes, a very importatnt one.

Ropes and nipple clamps.

All very much improvised, but still! We did it.

Sunday morning, when we woke up, we started fooling around a bit.
Pinching, some light spanking.
I made k stand up, put her hands high against the cupboard and blindfolded her.

It was a wonderful sight, seeing her stand up, naked, blindfolded and very, very vulnerable.
I took my belt and looped it firmly around her waist.
I don't kow why, but I have always loved the sight of a leather belt, strapping in a girls waist.
It is a sort of a teeny, weeny corset, I guess. Emphasising the female hour-glass form.

Later I looseened the belt and used it on her asscheeks.
Now that really was a first! I liked it, she liked it.

At a certain point, I was holding k down on the bed and whispering in her ear that I was going to tie her up the next time.

"Why the next time"?

A good question and there was no reason to postpone it. A couple of days ago, I found a left-over rope, a quite rough one, and I went to fetch it.
I also took a couple of clothespins with me...


I have never been a boy scout, so knots are not my thing.
Not yet.
I just did my best tying k's hands behind her back and I put the clothespins on her nipples.
To be honest, I loosened them a bit, but they still did their job very well!

What impressed me was that k really enjoyed the feeling of these pins.
She was very much aroused and when I started stroking her clit, she came hard, very hard. She had one of these orgasms rising from deep inside her and lasting very long.

When I removed the blindfold, k was very emotional and she hid for a very long time in my arms.

It was a warm and deep and very new experience!

Little task

I just texted k that I wanted her to masturbate and send me a text message to thank me.

Half a minute later, she answered that she couldn't. She was in the car and driving to an appointment for her job.

Now is that a good reason to disobey?

I don't think so. I do accept that she is not able to do as told, right away . I did not give her a time limit. But not possible?
No.
I let her know that it is not Me who has to resolve her problem, that's up to her.

I don't mind when she has to wait a bit to touch herself. In fact I am quite happy with that. Her appointment will have an extra edge to it...

I than suggested that every decent bar has a bathroom.

Now I just wait and see when I will get her message.

Exciting!